I had a rather nice weekend. On Thursday after school, I hung out with the same 6th grader, Nancy, and her dad again. For Mid-Autumn Festival, she had given me a coupon for a box of "the best kind of mooncakes", instead of just giving me a box. I thanked her, but didn't have time before my trip to go hunting down a department store in the next district over. So when I went over to her apartment, which, like most non sleazy apartments I've seen, has nice stone/marble tiled floors (sorry, I've been stuck in an "I want nice floors" mood for weeks), she gave me some of this mooncake to try. The best kind are from Hong Kong, and they are called Snowy mooncakes with mungbean paste and bits of eggyolk instead of lotus paste and a whole egg yolk. Or "cold skin" mooncakes. Anyway, they have a soft white outer layer that's sort of like mochi, and then the inside is yellow and with tiny bits of egg. Oh my goodness this was the best mooncake I have ever eaten in my entire life. In that instant, when I put the first bite in my mouth, I regretted not going early that sunday morning before I caught a train to Guilin to search for these wonderful things. Oh and they are gone forever. That will be my mission next year. To find them and bask in their splendidness.
Hah. Anyway, we went to some nice chinese restaurant for dinner, which was good, and then to karaoke! hahaha. it was pretty fun. we sang lots of early 90's english songs that she knew, and they sang some chinese songs for me too. I always feel bad going out with her (well, both times) because they spend a good amount of money to take me out. her dad is a higher ranking guy in the police and her mom seems to be traveling all the time, so I'm sure they make good money, but still.
Friday I didn't have school, as I mentioned. I went to chinese class in the afternoon, then rushed back to school by 5:30 because we had a little english teacher gathering, for dinner and to see the head of our department's apartment. He lives kinda far from school, it was like a 45 minute drive, more with traffic. He lives on the border of Futian district and Nanshan district...like that means anything to you. but anyway, it's kinda far. His apartment is on the 14th floor of a nice building and is super swank. Seriously, like nice flooring (again!), expensive furniture and massage chairs and stuff, big tv, huge really nice balcony, balconies off of both bedrooms, western bathroom, a bay window!! (which doesn't look off onto anything really nice, but still). Seriously, this could have been a nice apartment in a big city in the States. His wife is headmaster at another primary school. They're super rich. We went to dinner near the metro, in the area that caters to lots of foreigners. It was really good. We had this sweet and sour fish that had pinenuts on it. I haven't had pinenuts in so long. Yes, it was good. There was also a little pot over a small fire that had some meat in it. I was informed it was frog. I said "liang xi dong wu!" and they smiled and said "yes." haha. that means "amphibian" and I learned it just recently, teaching my 5th graders about amphibians. So later, they gave me some and I put a piece in my mouth. There were a few bones and I was like, "ah! bone!" and Mandy, one of the young teachers looked at me and said, "haha, yes, I saw that bone. You do not know frog." No, I do not know frog. But it really did taste like chicken.
This weekend I went to Long Gang district to visit my friends who live way up there. it was like an hour's bus ride. The outskirts of the city are more dangerous, but most of them live in their little downtown area, which is safer. We took another hour's busride out to the beach, which was nice. I spent some time sitting in the shallow part of the water and getting tossed around by the choppy waves. good times. I spent the night at one of their places, which was way nicer than mine. everytime I see someone else's apartment I get all jealous. not good. but anyway, it was nice to get out of the city for a little bit.
Last week, Celeste, another young teacher, told me that the lady who keeps the library at school used to live right below me, but she moved out when she got married. Her family still lives there and her sister had tried to find me a couple times, but I wasn't home. So last night, Sunday, she came and knocked on my metal barred door and she came in and we talked for a long time. Her name is Lin and she's 25 and she studied for her last year of undergrad and then for her master's in the UK. Masters in like logistics or something in Wales. She now works for Walmart's headquarters here, global acquisitions or something. something with logistics and shipping and whatnot. But she was really nice and she lives just downstairs from me. so now I have a new friend! yay! when I'm bored at night, I can go and visit her in her clean-tile-floored apartment with her parents who don't speak english. but they speak mandarin and cantonese, so I can practice I guess.